Fuck A Ruse

Quick question; Is it possible for someone to seriously be BLANTANTLY obtuse? Are there REALLY people in the world who are THAT unaware of how their actions affect others? I don't understand how people can just walk around, doing and saying ridiculous things and not care about the consequences. If you care about someone, it is common knowledge to avoid behaving in any way that would cause that particular person pain. Don't get me wrong sometimes things happen, and you don't even realize how what you did or said could have been taken out of context and blown out of proportion. On the other hand, I firmly believe that certain people are fully aware of the things they do and say, but just want to be assholes anyway. I also came to realize, situations like the aforementioned, are more painful when they seem to be coming out of absolutely nowhere. If everything was just fine between you and a person not too long ago, and they approach you with this sudden "I don't give a crap about anything, including you"  attitude, you're bound to be completely baffled. There's nothing I hate more than communicating with someone who chooses not to be completely honest.  Instead, choosing to hold onto a grudge that was NEVER expressed. In turn, concocting a RUSE  that  SEEMS to be aptly complying with the needs YOU may have expressed during the communication, but in reality are bursts of petty anger. In the immortal words of Sweet Brown,  "Ain't nobody got time time for that!" If a person is not going to express how they truly feel from the beginning, then what is the point of having the conversation in the first place? To come to some faux understanding? Why even waste the energy? If that person chooses to use their energy to be petty, distant and speak AT you, as if they never cared, that's their prerogative. It is not YOUR job to force anyone to understand where you are coming from. Nor to listen to nonsense. If a person is making the conscious decision to NOT give predominantly positive vibes to the nature of your relationship, boyfriend/girlfriend, bestfriend, family member or ANYONE in inbetween, it's cutoff time. If for nothing else, then because you owe yourself more than that. The world is way too big, to hold on to something or someone that is damaging you. Lose a loved one, meet someone, build a bond and you have a new one, in no time. It is beyond vital, to love and respect YOU first and foremost, no matter what.