Tuesday, March 1, 2016

Synced.

 It's March already, damn that was quick. I've had a lot going on  this past week and I haven't had the time to really check in. Today I've learned that in any relationship, it is important to be on the same page at some point. If you don't make it your absolute mission to have a mutual understanding throughout, then whatever you are trying achieve by being in that relationship, is futile. Nothing can survive when it is broken or out of sync. It is also really important to acknowledge when your counterpart is making strides for improvement. Sometimes, it is really hard when a person who is used to behaving and coping in a certain way alters their innards to be perceived warmer. The toll that feat takes on a person deserves recognition as well as respect. Apparently, when you really truly care about someone you don't give up on them no matter how difficult things may get. It makes me wonder though, how difficult is too difficult? I'm all for sticking it out, and holding it down  but at what point do you realize you can't hold it anymore? What's to be done if the weight becomes to much to bear? I mean, I've yet to truly give up anyone I care about. With the exception of one person and honestly, it was the hardest thing I ever had to do. Especially considering, the person that I chose to let go of is responsible for half of my genetic make-up. Honestly though, I feel as though the only way you can ever know when to let a person go is if they've done more harm than good. If you can look through the span of said relationship and end up smiling more than grimacing than it's worth working through and fighting for. If you experience the opposite however, then maybe it's time to part ways quickly and permanently.Overall, it is important to know yourself well enough to distinguish the two early on. It will prevent years of heartbreak in the long run.

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