Being lied to is always the ultimate betrayal. Or at least part of it because every genuinely sick, evil or hurtful thing anyone has ever done has stemmed from a lie they claimed to be able to control at some point. Honesty is the most important part of any relationship and without it whatever relationship you think you're apart of essentially doesn't exist. The reason it is so detrimental to remain honest is not because of any "golden rule" it's simply because honesty is easier to keep up with. Once someone tells a lie they have to continuously string out a saga of lies to support the one they began with. If you really care about someone, there is never any reason to hide. Be open. Be real. Express yourself. If someone is giving you their all ,communicating sharing giving unconditional attention and all you can give is a farce of yourself then you shouldn't be in a relationship with that person. Or any relationship at all for that matter. Honesty is love and no-one wants a lop-sided lover. If you're putting up with any variation of that then maybe it's time to reevaluate and visit the notion that maybe it is best to be alone that to tolerate that kind of hurt.
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