Wednesday, January 27, 2016

Zodiac Bullshit

Yesterday I had a conversation with an acquaintance of mine and the conversation was going well until they ask me when my birthday was. So I responded with a smile, and said May 28th. The response to that was "Oh,that's why you act like that."  So at this point I'm in my head thinking, what the hell are they talking about?  Then it hit me,  Geminis get such a bad rap. To be honest, I don't even know where it comes from.  Everytime I tell somebody I'm a Gemini they screw their face up like they smell something bad. I once had a girl tell me "oh no, we can't be friends because Geminis are two faced." First of all, the fact that a person could let a Zodiac  dictate who they can and cannot bother to get to know is an issue in itself. Which would mean I dodged a bullet because I wouldn't even want to hang out with a perosn like that anyway, off  of the strength of that alone. My question is, who said Geminis were two faced? Where did that notion even  begin? Seriously, because I don't know any other sign that gets dogged out the way Geminis do. I feel like people let their personal private experiences with an individual person affect how they feel about a whole group of people. That's just crazy to me. That's like me saying I hate ALL white people because ONE racist white lady called me a "mulatto spook." That doesn't even make sense. Geminis are as loving, as loyal and as kind as the rest of the zodiac. Apparently, we're hot tempered, two faced and disloyal. Okay, I know I have a temper. I can't speak for EVERY Gemini, but what I can say is  tempers usually come from very emotional creatures. I am very emotional, I cry so much and sometimes I don't even understand why. The only time my temper is really "out of control", is if I love someone and allow them to be apart of my life (friendship or otherwise) and they violate the sacredness of that.  I feel like that can apply to anyone, anywhere from any zodiac. No one likes to feel like they've been made a fool of, no one likes to feel like they trusted and loved the wrong person. No one wakes up in the morning and says "I'm looking forward to being hurt today", so I feel like that reaction is warranted. As far as the two faced thing, that also ties into emotional boundary, but a big part of that is perception and growth as well. If I allow someone to get to know me and I find out by watching and being perceptive that they roped me in under false pretenses, I'm going to treat them as such. There is no reason why a person should act one way when I'm looking at them and then as soon as they turn their back and think that I'm gone, act a different way. So now, because I saw that individual act a way that I didn't agree with when they didn't know I was watching them, I'm in turn, treating them how I see fit based off of what I saw when they thought I wasn't looking. That does not qualify as two faced, that is killer perception and adaptability. A quality that I happen to very much treasure. Regarding the disloyalty, that is just a bold faced lie. Like I said I can't speak for every Gemini, but I know for me personally, I'm loyal to a fault. If I had a history with you, and we've shared the struggle and we're connected in a deep unexplainable way, even when you hurt me I'm going to put that aside and be there for you. I say to a fault, because a lot of people don't even deserve that. My loyalty however, won't let me behave any other way. All this being said I don't know where the hatred for Geminis comes from, but I'm going to go on record and say that I think it's completely and utterly stupid. And it needs to stop. Form an opinion about someone based on their personality, their moral standing, even their conscious and intellectual capacity NEVER their zodiac sign. The mere thought of it is ridiculous. Stop.

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